Dating process is very time consuming, almost as a hobby or a job.It is hard, because involves a lot of rejection and also inflicting hurt on others, not intentionally, but as part of the process.Feels to me that men have a new addiction—online dating instead of video games.
As a result of this happening, if I know I’m not planning on seeing someone again, I am honest and send a message. Also, when someone persistently contacts me and there is no interest on my part, I send a kind email wishing him well.
But, if you want to find lasting love and you’re over 40, online dating is still your best option.
You’re not socializing with singles on a regular basis. You don’t get set up often, and when you do, it’s usually just because the main thing you have in common is you’re both single.
So they are just staying online hiding behind the keyboard and will fail to move to a real world.
I feel like there is a tendency to not want to be all in on the entire dating process.