”, your mind will begin to look for answers, such as “I can’t miss out! ” or “I can use this as a reference experience to improve my confidence with women,” your mind will respond with thoughts and emotions that will make you take action.
Rather than asking disempowering questions, begin to become aware of whenever you notice yourself asking disempowering questions and in exchange ask empowering question.
If you expect to get advice like, “grow a five o’clock shadow” or “work out”, you’re wrong. What you will learn are the mental and behavioral habits that will increase your likelihood of attracting women. In a period of 4 months, I transformed myself from someone who struggled to interact with women with confidence into someone who often had spontaneous positive interactions with women as I went about daily life. The types of questions you ask yourself effects what you chose to focus on and thus, how you’ll feel.
I want you to let go and allow me to indulge your mind with an alternative reality of what it takes to become that guy that women want to talk with, spend time with, and date. Empowering questions cause you to take action, and disempowering ones causes you to freeze up.
One of the few reasons we love kids (just kidding) is because they know how to have fun on their own; they know how to amuse themselves.
If a child wants to run around and act like a plane, they’ll do so without feeling judged.
” If you are aware enough you’ll notice you’re asking yourself disempowering questions such as “what if she rejects me?
”So take control of your mind and begin to ask yourself empowering questions so that you can expect more out of life and increase your confidence with talking to women!
Studies also show that men who meditate are perceived as more attractive to women compared to men who don’t meditate. Being congruent is whenever you align with your thoughts, words and actions.
If you focus on what you want you’ll feel excited; if you focus on what you don’t want, you’ll feel nervous.
The difference between a man who interacts confidently with women on a consistent basis and a man who doesn’t, comes down to the difference in the questions they consistently ask themselves.
Anytime you feel some doubt or uncertainty, become aware of the questions you have to answer to elicit that kind of emotional response.
You can ask yourself, “What would I have to ask myself to feel afraid of going for the kiss?